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Advice For some people.....
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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 3 years now he's 20 and I'm 19. I know we are still a little young but we want a baby I haven't been able to get pregnant. When we have sex we both finish, but sometimes sperm dont come out of him maybe 3 out of 5 times (not back to back) it dont. Is that normal? []
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2005-07-05 18:18:10 |
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How do i have sex???..........
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Okay, you just have to relax. And don't worry about condoms or anything because they don't give you the natural feel. Just let the guy do whatever he wants to you and let him lead you. If he wants you to suck his cock, do it. If he wants to lick your pussy let him. It doesnt matter, sex is not big deal, just relax and hope you dont get pregnant. ~Michelle Rockhorse []
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2005-06-11 19:42:34 |
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whoa
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Heather! I've just gone through your entire diary and you give fantastic advice! You cant let a few people bring you down when all these people come to you for help! What kind of example does that set! Please rethink this. Love always xxx [AdviceGurly]
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2003-08-06 10:19:00 |
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whoa
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whats the password? [Anonymous]
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2003-07-14 02:18:15 |
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whoa
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whats the password? [debbie]
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2003-07-14 01:55:05 |
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whoa
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How do I let a guy that I'm about to have sex with know that I'm a virgin without him being turned off by the fact or anything. I never told him that I wasn't, but I'm not sure if he just assumes that I'm not a virgin or what. Please help! Thanx:)! [Corteney]
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2003-07-13 09:16:36 |
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You can HAVE IT!
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hey heather, just wanted to say whoever those two girls were, they were obviously such pussies, i mean they didn't even leave their account thingers so that you could reply back. don't worry about it. but do ya really have to give away the account? cuz it won't be the same if it's not you, ya know. well have a good one. [the_cass]
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2003-07-08 23:29:12 |
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WANT A NEW DIARY?
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If you really don't want the diary anymore I will take it. I hope that you keep it though because you are great at helping people. [Carebear2309]
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2003-07-08 23:11:00 |
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WANT A NEW DIARY?
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i want it i mean y do u wanna give up but if thats wut u wanna do then i would b happy 2 take it and i will make sure it continuse 2 b very good like u have been doin. well i hope u dont wanna give it up but i dont think sum1 like me can stop u. g2g iguess. ttyl *~*~brittany~*~* [ElmozGurl777]
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2003-07-08 18:51:35 |
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WANT A NEW DIARY?
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Hey.. why are you giving up on this diary?!!?!? ~Me [HelpMeThroughLife]
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2003-07-08 18:00:18 |
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Advice
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hey, im sorry i just can not help myself here. im sad and almost want to cry right now. my boyfriends acting so weird right now. help me please! up until like the 13th of last month, he'd always say that we're going to be together forever. but now he says that he doesnt think so. b/c there are to many things about me that might get to him WITH TIME. but he always just says "i dunno" when i ask him WHAT. i've told him and i mean completely when i say it. i will change ANYTHING and EVERYTHIGN for him. i do love him THAT much. he's been my world for as long as we've been together. and i miss him saying that we can make it. what happeneD? or really, what should i do? please tell me somthing that can help me. i want him back, the "old": him, and if not, then i want to be able to show him how much he means to me but i dont knwo how to. sorry this is kind of complicated. help me out here please....i mean i dont know if it's b/c we dont have sex. or if he's just scared of the future, or hates me, or in denial or WHAT... please HELP!!! thank you [advice05]
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2003-07-06 20:21:06 |
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Advice
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actually i think ur wrong cuz i actually went on a website, typed that question in and it said exactly what ur NOT saying so ur wrong. [no]
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2003-07-05 00:25:01 |
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Um, I hate to disagree, but yes, it takes more than one sperm to break down the outer layer of an ovum. I took Human Anatomy last year, and we spent weeks on that segement. It was a brand new book, so there was no out of date information. Colleges use that book, and it stated clearly that it did take hundreds of sperm to break down an ovum's outer layer. Just one was needed to literally fertilize it. [sleepisgood]
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2003-07-01 20:38:51 |
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My boyfriend and I got in this big fight last night he says i'm too self critical of myself and i know he's right. I'm 5'9 abotu 150lbs. Which i'm not fat at all i mean i know i'm not but I still feel fat when i'm around people if that make any sense. Like the other day i saw his X for the first time she was like 5'2 100lbs i felt like a elephant in the room. I mean i have got to stop doing this it's making him mad and me feel bad about myself. What do i do to stop all of the stupid feelings. Please respond... [CherryCoke33]
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2003-06-30 11:40:47 |
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advice anyone?
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thanks for staying wiht us. lol [sproxygirlie]
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2003-06-27 21:32:22 |
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advice anyone?
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i recently wrote to u about a girl who was raped by her teacher and u told me to keep u updated well heres what happened she finally told someone, but it gets worse the police said they couldn't do anything cause the teacher denied evry single word of what she said then she went with her mum to a docters surgery to get tested and well she found out she's pregnant and if u really want to know the whole story her name is no sunshine ok bye [a girl in need]
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2003-06-27 02:05:37 |
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advice anyone?
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Okay, two questions: 1) Does a guy's penis really get bigger after losing his virginity, or is it a myth? 2) Can a woman get pregnant after having sex if the man uses a condom with a microscopic hole in it, because it takes about a hundred sperm to fertilize one ovum, so can that many come out of a microscopic hole in that little time? Not to mention all of the ones killed by the acid in the vagina. Thanks bunches. 8D [sleepisgood]
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2003-06-27 00:24:40 |
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advice anyone?
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I was with this guy for awhile and I was with him alone and one thing led to another and we had sex. Not long afterwards he started going out with this girl that I hate. He told me he didn't want to hang out with me anymore. I hve problems with guys now. Every time a guy says i'm hot or pretty or somethimg I don't believe him and I get upset and I think he is making fun of me for some reason. Well my question is , why can't I think that I mean it and what can I do to take it like it is a compliment and not an insult? plz help me! I appreciate it, alot. [00_EminemFan]
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2003-06-27 00:16:23 |
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Heather
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Not to present any more problems, but I wanted to leave this link in case anyone still has confusion about the whole dry sex and pregnancy issue, so here goes: http://www.scarleteen.com/reproduct ion/preg_risk_dry.htmlI hope that helps if there was any confusion And also about the getting pregnant from giving head: http://www.scarleteen.com/reproduct ion/preg_risk_oral.htmlPlease keep in mind this isn't just ANY site, its got tons of sponsors and its MEANT for sexual education. [zeeshiznit]
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2003-06-26 19:02:52 |
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Heather
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PaperDolly isn't trying to give you 'stupid' comments, she's trying to tell you that in order to give good advice, you need to do a little research so you can give people the CORRECT advice, instead of what you think you know. If you don't know the facts about something, I suggest going to scarleteen.com and seeing if they have anything on it, or simply tell the person your not sure. You can't just spit out nonsense and claim there facts because your dealing with peoples lives here. They come to YOU for advice, on rather serious topics. And I've read your diary, and your advice is pretty good, but you have to be careful not to tell people the wrong stuff on things that can easily be researched. [zeeshiznit]
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2003-06-26 17:18:49 |
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Heather
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Girl, lemme give you some advice. =) If you are so bothered by stupid comments, then delete them and you don't have to waste your time looking at them. PaperDolly and her "friends" (which are probably all her) should not get to you, but if they do, then delete them! [Advice_Gurl Fan]
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2003-06-26 16:48:06 |
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Heather
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The only thing I did was CORRECT your information. If you have a problem with that... Then give the RIGHT info. =) Its not that hard. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-26 16:05:13 |
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Heather
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Advice needed..... sighs... Maybe but unforunately, my situation is too complicated for anyone to comprehend in a short space. So I will simply say thank you for staying. I enjoy your diary, and coming here to see how you help others. Something in reality we all should strify to do. [ACountryGirl4Ever]
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2003-06-26 15:06:20 |
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Heather
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Keep writing, Heather! I appreciate how much you've helped me with advice and it's nice to know someone like you actually cares enough to want to help people. You've got a fan base out here in MDD Land! Keep doing it for us! Love ya, girl. [FLchick17]
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2003-06-26 14:41:53 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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if u leave alot of people wil be diappointed look back at how many people you've helped without ur advice these people would have not a clue about so many thingssure theres like 50 other advice diaries but urs is the only that i've seen that has actually kept going some of those diaries haven't been updated for 3 years, u are great at giving advice and if u stopped alot of people including me would be very lost with their lives! [resse]
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2003-06-26 01:10:48 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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dude paper doll is a flimsy source. dry sex is dry. unless u stik the clothes with sperm on them up u within like 1 minute of it eing out in the air u will not get pregnant. [sproxygirlie]
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2003-06-25 21:52:38 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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u helped me so much. r u making a new one? [sproxygirlie]
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2003-06-25 21:13:37 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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Please dont leave. I have read your journal from page one, and you are the first journal I check out daily. I read a few other journals daily regardless if they have been updated or not, to read the comments on them. Your advice has come from the best place, the heart, and your facts are strong. Dear Abby and Dear Ann Launders started out with less training then a lot of people realize and became recognized named in the field for giving advice. You have a good head on your shoulders, dont let a few naysayers, who I see on other people's diaries being similarily critical and nasty cause you to leave. Stand your ground and continue to do what has obviously given you great pleasure. [ACountryGirl4Ever]
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2003-06-25 18:53:38 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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i'm not going to write any more. i can take critism but choose not to cuz i really dont wanna take part in it. also i never got any bad comments before and if ya dont like my advice dont come into my diary uninvited and talk shit about me. [advice_gurl_on_life-not logged]
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2003-06-25 18:24:10 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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i don't want u to leave but most of the stuff u give advice about is just bull. you should try going to some websites and find out the facts. but don't go [Seans Baby Angel]
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2003-06-25 01:32:50 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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hi, it is me again...anyway if you go to my diary and read entry #27, you will know I am starting this advice diary ring...I hope if you decide to come back, you will join! I got advice_broad and prettyinpink123 so far, and I hope to see you there too! [Dear Amie]
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2003-06-25 01:24:23 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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Listen... With a diary like this, you have to expect criticism. Don't leave because of it, learn from it. Dont like what I'm saying? Back your advice with facts. I'm not sure what got you so upset, but whatever it is it can't be enough to make you leave. You obviously care enough about people to want to help them. Don't quit that because one got on your nerves and another challenged you. Thats what learning, growing, and changing is all about. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-25 00:58:59 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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hi, just face up to the criticisms and soon they will get tired of it. Don't ever give up because of criticisms. Be strong, I know how it feels to get criticized because I have an advice diary too and I got a lot of criticism but I looked at them as something that will help to make my diary better. All the best to you, don't let those people get you down! [Dear Amie]
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2003-06-25 00:38:46 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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Hey gurl, don't let two comments that were probably from the same person that was too much of a coward to leave their real name get you down. Don't let them win. They're just jealous that you have the chance to help so many people. I hope you decide to come back:)! Much love, [AdVicE BroAd]
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2003-06-25 00:34:28 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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This whole advice thing has gotten waaaaaay to out of hand,if she wants to give advice just let her, and if you have a problem with it oh well, you can't stop her!!! So, Heather keep giving advice if that is what you wanna do and fuck those fucking bastards that need a fucking life and need to fucking grow up! [SwishE234]
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2003-06-25 00:30:23 |
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f*** ALL YOU MUTHAf***ERS
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don't go =[ [punkprincess1521]
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2003-06-25 00:27:22 |
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Hey it's Heather!
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Like, omigawd, you got a comment! Anonymous is right. You dont even know what you're talking about most of the time. PLEASE just do us all a favor and...well....leave. [I've had enough, BITCH]
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2003-06-25 00:19:24 |
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Hey it's Heather!
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*psssst* I have a little secret to tell you...um, sweetie, there are about 50 "advice" diaries on this website, and frankly, um...NO ONE GIVES A FUCK ABOUT YOU SO GET OVER YOUR SELF IMPORTANT GARBAGE SPEWING LOAD OF BULLSHIT [Anonymous]
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2003-06-25 00:14:56 |
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STD's
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Um, for the people who are saying you can't get pregant from giving head, I am related to a doctor, and he said that you can but it is a very very slim chance, you are a lot more likely of getting a STD. So, just shut the fuck up! [SwishE234]
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2003-06-24 10:16:42 |
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STD's
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Condoms do protect against STD's. They are the MAIN protection used against STD's. And you can get STD's from touching, but not casual touching. Their transmitted through body fluids such as seman and blood, and some like scabies and pubic lice can be transmitted from regular contact, but condoms do prevent most STD's if used correctly. Also, you can't get pregnant from giving head. You can get STD's like herpes, but you can't get pregnant. Unless sperm comes in contact with the vulva, you will not become pregnant. I think you should research your facts a little more before giving advice. [zeeshiznit]
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2003-06-24 05:37:46 |
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STD's
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You can't get pregnant from giving head! Go ask any LICENSED doctor. [Seans Baby Angel]
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2003-06-24 03:08:23 |
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STD's
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Okay. If they don't fight against STDs, then go find a diseased guy and fuck him without one. "Well, I was going to get one anyways. Condoms dont help!"
Dont give advice if you don't know what you're talking about. Condoms are the most effective protection against STDs. Yes, from touching. But that depends on HOW you are touching. They are usually transmitted by bodily fluids or by directly touching the infected.. Part. Thats why you can get an infection in your THROAT from giving a guy a BJ. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-24 02:09:53 |
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Hey. I just wanted to say, that I agree that there is a LOW-NO chance of getting pregnant from dry sex. I've had dry sex about 2 times a week for the past 3 months and I haven't once been pregnant! That's all I had to say. And I fully agree that PaperDollyBurned is taking this out of proportion! :) --Lauren [Seans Baby Angel]
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2003-06-24 00:48:11 |
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Oh, and need i remind you that you ALSO agreed it was a risk and found it not risky enough to mention it? Its not an opinion, its a proven fact. And as a friend said, Opinion has no place in advice. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-24 00:27:35 |
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My opinion is you should let me write whatever i want in my diary. i never once told you to stop giving advice, just to give the FULL advice. it is not out of proportion. There is a significant risk. But I guess in your oh-so-mature life of a FULL 22 years new that. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-24 00:24:42 |
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Inter-racial relationships..
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I have to agree with paperdoll. You can't get pregnant by giving head. It's impossible. However, I have to agree with you on the interracial relationships thing. I'm white and I just recently had a relationship with a Puerto Rican guy. I know that that's not that much interracial but when you compare us two, there's definitely a huge difference. Everyone is human. [LiGHtLeSs TiGeR]
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2003-06-24 00:17:12 |
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You can't get pregnant by giving head. It's impossible. The digestive system and the reproduction system are not connected directly at all. In order for something to happen you would have to somehow digest the sperms whole, which is doubtful. Not only that but the acids in your stomach and mouth would kill them anyway. It's an urban myth that you can get pregnant that way. You use protection to prevent STD's. [LiGHtLeSs TiGeR]
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2003-06-24 00:11:41 |
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I was raped by the teacher!!!........
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I have a question... u said in one of your entries that you could get pregnant by giving head... how exactly is that possible? [rocker]
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2003-06-23 14:50:51 |
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Inter-racial relationships..
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Thanks for your help, Heather!! Love ya, girl! [FLchick17]
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2003-06-23 12:42:30 |
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I was raped by the teacher!!!........
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I just found this interesting - I noticed the confrontation between you and PaperDollyBurned, so I went to check out her diary as well. If you haven't noticed, she wrote this article about speaking against advice diary writers, mentioning this "dry sex argument". I just thought it was intersting that she spent so much time doing that, and if she didn't agree with you then why the he** was she still reading and taking the time to write that! duh! Anywyas - I'm sure you reaseach things before responding, so keep up the good work and letting people know what they wanna know! Bye! [Anonymous]
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2003-06-23 02:52:45 |
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I was raped by the teacher!!!........
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i think she should definitely tell the police. You know, before evrythings too late. Thats my opinion. [FrenZy]
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2003-06-23 01:43:16 |
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Inter-racial relationships..
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Yeah well, you failed to mention THAT little detail. I'm not trying to be mean either BUT you arent giving the proper and full advice. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-23 01:29:16 |
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Inter-racial relationships..
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what advice would u give to a girl who has been raped by her teacher this advice is not for me it is 4 another mdd user and she desperatly needs help any ideas???????????????????? oh and telling her to tell some one is a dead end she ain't gonna tell anyone [a girl in need]
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2003-06-23 01:17:00 |
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Where can girls meet girls???
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No, its possible. Look it up. Unless the guy is wearing a condom, in the event he "finishes" while they are grinding, EVEN IF THERE ARE CLOTHES ON, the sperm can "swim" up the vagina and impregnate her. The risk may not be as high as 80 or 90 but it is still there, something to be aware of. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-23 00:56:39 |
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Where can girls meet girls???
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Hey, I've read a lot of your entries and you give great advice! I want your opinion on something. How do you feel about interracial relationships? Thanks! [FLchick17]
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2003-06-22 23:47:19 |
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bf hasnt emailed me!!, how do i pop my own cherry?
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p.s. right after he pulled out of the like couple of minutes/seconds he was in me, he used a condom ith spermicide... does that count for anything??? [pYnEaPpLe_PrYnCeSs]
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2003-06-22 22:52:36 |
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bf hasnt emailed me!!, how do i pop my own cherry?
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ok well it wasnt the whole like 2 minutes it was really like he put it in to see if it woud hurt... then he went and got a condom.. gosh please tell me im not! cuz it happened once when i was a virgin with no condom for longer and i wasnt pregnant [pYnEaPpLe_PrYnCeSs]
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2003-06-22 22:33:05 |
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bf hasnt emailed me!!, how do i pop my own cherry?
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Im a 17-f.. and Well Ive had boyfriends and liked it, and I have crushes on guys, and think guys are hot, but I also kinda think Girls are hot.. and Ive made out with a Girl before and I had No complaints.. So I guess Im Bi or Bicurious and well I guess that My question really is How do I come about finding other girls who feel the same way and might want to try things out with me? [Nothing to Anyone]
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2003-06-22 22:18:52 |
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bf hasnt emailed me!!, how do i pop my own cherry?
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Well... I am going to agree with both of you on the dry sex. IF you are talking clothing on..... Rubbing against each other as dry sex. Then there is no way to get pregnant. HOWEVER, if you refer to dry sex as the woman is not aroused and is there for not 'wet' as dry sex. which would almost be rape... then yes it is possible to get pregnant. BUT here you have always said dry sex is fooling around with clothing on.... and going thru the motions without body fluids beng exchanged. [ACountryGirl4Ever]
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2003-06-22 20:47:01 |
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bf hasnt emailed me!!, how do i pop my own cherry?
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Hey it's Heather, normally I don't write into these comment boxes because it's really for QUESTIONS, not the way I give advice.. Actually, I think you're wrong PaperDollyBurned. It's not actually possible to get pregnant by touching each other through the clothes unless the clothes are opened. And I like to explain myself throughly and what you just said is basically what I said but I give examples. Well if there are any QUESTIONS out there I will be more then happy to answer them. Love, Heather [Advice_gURL_on_Life]
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2003-06-22 17:19:23 |
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bf hasnt emailed me!!, how do i pop my own cherry?
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In entry 58 you should have emphasized that it IS possible to get pregnant through "dry sex" and grinding.
As far as the popping the cherry thing, to be stretched is good but to actually pop it is to stick an object about the size of a penis there and shove it through the hymen. Its simple... no need to do all the work to typed. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-22 15:06:07 |
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Hey it's Heather
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I want to pop my own cherry, how do i? [Advice 4 yOu]
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2003-06-22 00:35:17 |
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Hey it's Heather
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hey...well..ok, for the summer ive been in florida, and in the beginning me and my boyfriend you e-mail each other constantly...but lately he hasnt...and its been a week and a half since hes emailed me and im kinda worried... [Blackened_hearts]
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2003-06-22 00:34:48 |
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How do i have sex???..........
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how long does it take for u to have symptoms other than losing ur period if ur pregnant>? u can only get pregnant for sex right? and cum cant live out in open air?right? [sproxygirlie]
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2003-06-21 22:32:18 |
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How do i have sex???..........
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wednesday i went to my boy's house and we had sex for like 2 minutes with no condom (today is saturday). I don't know like when that precum stuff comes, but ive been told that it can get you pregnant. After like 2 minutes i made him go get a condom, but im still scared i might be pregnant. how would i know if i am? would the symptoms come like now? i'm feeling bloated and stuff and breaking out, but im not sure if its my period or what. I talked to my boy about it and he said it's okay cuz he didnt do that precum thing. i dunno what to do at all! help! [pYnEaPpLe_PrYnCeSs]
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2003-06-21 12:51:21 |
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BOYFRIENDS AND EX-BFF
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When my boyfriend and I have "dry sex" it hurts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!What's the problem? Is there something wrong with me? How do you make it feel good? Do you have any alternatives? [Georgia Hilton]
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2003-06-20 19:20:00 |
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BOYFRIENDS AND EX-BFF
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OK, I have a problem...and I was wondering if you could help me with it. I don't know how to have sex, seriously. My parents never told me anything. I've heard from my friends, but I'm not exactly sure what you're supposed to do. Where do you put your hands? Are you supposed to kiss, because some say you do and some say you're too busy. I'm lost...help me [Julia Simons]
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2003-06-20 19:15:36 |
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SEX QUESTIONS
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ok well i kinda have a problem...well c im in 7th grade and everyone in my grade is smoking {ciggs and pot}....only one of them thats doin it used to be my best friend and i feel really bad cuz i think its my fault that she turned to smoking pot cuz me and my best friend megg were like really good friends with her and we kinda fell apart but me and megg are still together i just feel taht i was the one who caused it cuz i ditched her....thanx plz_help [ditzy_gurl12]
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2003-06-20 15:57:20 |
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SEX QUESTIONS
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Ok, here's a small, well, big problem for me..I really hope you can help me. Let's see. Alright, I enrolled in marching band for my highschool. I'm going to be a freshmen this year, and marching band has already started. I met this boy named Cory...And I cannot get him off my mind at all. Whenever I think about him, I get butterflies in my stomach..I haven't felt this way about a guy for a while now. (my last boyfriend, my second boyfriend, broke my heart). I've gotten the nerve to call and talk to Cory. And we just talk about anything and everything. He's done some gestures I guess you could say, that hints that he really does feel the same. But I don't know if he's flirting by axcident, or really feels the same. I'm scared to ask him for his e-mail. I'm scared to tell him how I feel, since I haven't had all that luck with boyfriends. But Cory, I'm so serious over him, and I really want him to know. But I can't gather up the courage and ask him, because of the second boy I asked out. What do I do? ~Courtney~ [Janegurl14]
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2003-06-20 15:29:29 |
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Hi! I have 3 questions involving sex. 1 - What is the water balloon methad?? (I am refering to a female way of masterbating). 2 - What is the sexual reason that girls get a tongue ring? I have no idea! 3 - What are good tips on helping me orgasism during sex!? (BTW, do girls do anything like guys when they get off?) PLEASE HELP! I'm so confused! [Sex_Question]
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2003-06-19 02:06:54 |
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What are signs of being pregnant? And what exactly is implantation bleeding? [Fan of Yours]
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2003-06-19 01:02:47 |
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well i have a question. i have a new "boytoy" (which you can read about in my new diary), but i dont know if i should pursue him or let him pursue me. we both are very hot for each other, but what do you think, too slutty for me to try and get him? or too prude for me to let him try and get me? [lolita hayes]
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2003-06-19 00:56:11 |
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hello, i think ur advice is great. my problem is that i want to be more outspoken. Around certain people it's hard for me to talk at all, i just feel so awkward. One of my "friends" the other day told me that i was boring to be around. I hate this sooo much Do you have any advice for me to be able to be more fun and outspoken around people? Thanks a million. - Tiffany [rocker]
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2003-06-16 14:31:06 |
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Hi, me and my boyfriend are about to have sex for the first time really soon ... and I want to know what to do so I don't look really dumb or clumsy and I at least know what I'm doing ... thanx for any advice you can give me! (I'm 18) [Krissy]
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2003-06-16 09:07:03 |
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Hey ok here is my thing. Thios guy that I have not spoken to scince Febuary IMed me yesterday. The last time we talked he told me that I was a hypocrite and a jerk and a bunch of othere thing that I don't really feel like getting into. Well he acted all nice like he wanted to be friends again. But here is the deal I can't be his friend again. He always ends up hurting me and always starts a fight. How can I get him to just leave me alone? I don't want to be mean to him. I just want to let him know in the nicest way possible that after what he did I can't be friends with him again. I don't hold a grudge over it but I don't want to put myself in that situation again. Sorry this was kinda long. [Carebear2309]
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2003-06-15 19:03:08 |
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I have tried to talk to my parents about it. It usually ends up in them yelling at me and me just standing there and taking it (i dont like to yell at my parents). Then i always feel like crap.. I try again to talk calmy about it at differnt times but they dont understand. It's kinda like their minds won't be changed. Should i just not have a boyfriend right now? [RAARRR]
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2003-06-15 14:35:54 |
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It's strange.. There's always advice for girls but no guys... Our we really totally at fault here...? The reason why I say that it's because you know I give friendly advice and it's basically about guys this (lots of girls that are friends.) Than I have my own problem of on person trying to get on me by emailing my soon to be girlfriend about 'don't screw up like I did." ok I talked too much. [MakenZero]
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2003-06-15 02:06:49 |
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k, heres the deal. I'm 16, and i've had a boyfriend for 5 months. My dad refuses to accept this, and he and my mom wont let me do ANYTHING with him unless it's with a group, or if he comes over my house. Well it's getting REALLY old and i have no clue what to do. Any help to get them to trust me would be great. I tried talking to them about it and they claim i'm "too young" to go to a guy's house. I'm SO enraged! Pleeease don't tell me I can't do anything about it, cuz i'm kinda about to go like sneak out to his house... It's not like we're gonna do anything bad or anything, just wanna chill ALONE, and the parents dont understand that. GRRR.. thanks for listening [RAARRR]
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2003-06-14 15:58:22 |
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i need some help... i had a boyfriend for almost 5 months, and when we broke up, i cried (i had never cried over a guy before) but then i kinda got over it. Well he asked me out again and i thought i wanted it too, but now i'm nt happy again.. it seems like i can never be happy with what i have. Like i alwayswant more i gues. What's wrong with me, and what can i do about it?? [confused]
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2003-06-14 10:58:12 |
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good advice on the getting over a guy...really good advie [sproxygirlie]
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2003-06-14 06:22:11 |
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Hey, ok, me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago or so, and I am STILL not over him. I've been with other guys, but that just makes me miss my ex even more. Could you please tell me some GOOD methods to get over a guy that don't involve being with another guy? Thanx:)! [Courtney]
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2003-06-13 11:08:05 |
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hey i have a problem: i need a boyfriend!! I am in 7th grade and going into 8th when the summer gets finished and i never ever had a boyfriend. im popular now and i talk to them but i never had a bf. everybody i hang out w/ has had one and all the guys i talk to had a gf. what can i do to make myself prettier. (im need to lose weight too)!!!!!!!!HELP HEATHER THANX [needshelpfast]
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2003-06-10 00:19:39 |
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i felt just like you when I met my boyfriend. Here is what you can do. Tell him that you respect his wishes and that you really want to be with him its just that it is hard for you to keep your hands off of him because of how sexy he is. You don't want to screw up the realationship and tell him when the time is right for the both of you to let eachother know. What I did was I tried to ignore it and kissed him instead it helped alittle but finally one night we just got to kissing and one thing lead to another so thats a way to do it to kiss him to get him worked up and maybe he will give in [baby_hazel_eyes16]
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2003-06-09 03:26:03 |
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no but it is very good advice, i know how she feels to and after i have a good long lasting orgasm with a cucumber or my clit, i dont even think about my bf. [to :babylove]
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2003-06-09 02:29:38 |
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sometimes masturbating is not going to help...I know how she feels and omg I just want to jump on patrick sometimes but i know that i can't and i hate it and no matter what i do it never goes away!!!!!!!!! [Babylove751]
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2003-06-09 02:23:40 |
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my boyfriend wants to kinda take things slow......
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hahahahahah thats so funny. i want to quote that. i think masterbation is good advice. heheheh. [lonelytiger]
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2003-06-09 02:15:05 |
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my boyfriend wants to kinda take things slow......
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Hey it's Heather...BTW if your interested you can go to this website with some great methods of masturbating. www.letsmasturbate.com Love, Heather [Advice_gURL_on_Life]
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2003-06-09 02:14:36 |
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i need some advice.my boyfriend wants to kinda take things slow, but i can't help feeling all the time like i wanna jump him or something. im going to respect him and all, but what should i do when i feel like that? just ignore it? i kinda wanna tell him about it, but i don't wanna say the wrong thing, like have him think im not respecting his decision to take it slow...im just all around confused. ~cunfuzzled [Blueberry9673]
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2003-06-09 01:43:48 |
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girls shouldn't give handjobs, its useless unless you know how to do, of course i only give them becasue i am a prude and wont give head, but girls shouldn't give handjobs. [lonelytiger]
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2003-06-09 00:59:13 |
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ok how do u like give a handjob/lead up to giving one. [sproxygirlie]
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2003-06-08 22:10:23 |
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k heres the scenario: my n my boyfriend are standing around in school talkin to our friends when this girl comes up and is like hey i wanna talk to u. so she starts yelling at me for like, leading one of her realy good guy friends on. So then my boyfriend asks me about it and he breaks up with me so that i can "figure out what i want" in his words. So i go to this fair thing, and see the other guy, adn chill for a while. Well 'm thinkin, if i need to figure things out, i need to know if i feel something when i kiss this kid, so i did, and it was the most romantic thing, with fireworks goin and everything, but i felt nothing, and mid-kiss, i stopped it. I reallyreally like my boyfriend and want to be with only him, but he found out about the kiss and is so mad! what do i do??? how can i get him back? i know i can if i do something really sweet for him to show him how much i love him, but i cant think of anything at all. help pleeease! [pYnEaPpLe_PrYnCeSs]
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2003-06-08 21:05:06 |
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Umm, I need some advice. Me and my bf Justin took a break from each other, and now we're back together. During that time, I slept with Ryan, who happens to be one of my best friends and an ex boyfriend. I'm just wondering if you think I should tell Justin about it. I know its not really any of his business but at the same time I don't wanna be keeping any secrets from him. Thanks so much. [aNgRy bLoNdE]
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2003-06-08 18:14:59 |
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hey just seeing if this worked [thug420girl]
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2003-06-08 18:00:36 |
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Heather, I e-mailed you but you never responded I was wondering if you ever read it? Please let me know- cheerinpumpkin16@hotmail.com [SweetCherryPie16]
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2003-06-08 17:05:21 |
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sorry me again i have another problem.. ok my Ex boyfreind JAMES STILL LIKES ME n i still like him butn i like his frends alex n larenzo too.... cuz wen i broke up wit james i had larenzo to talk to cuz he actually listened n helped me n then alex started talkin to my best frend n sed he wuz feelin me n now alex and/or larenzo wanna holla at me tomorrow n james wAnna holla at me on tuesday n i dont kno wat to do cuz i told them i liked all 3 of them n i cant do nething with them n tthey went behind eachtohers backs which i think is really bad!! n i dont wanna b the reason for all there problems now im suppossed to have sex wit alex tomorrow n i wanna but i dont wanna like ya kno????/ but i dont kno if larenzo n james r gonna b there cuz then they gonna want me too n i dont really mind but if i do have sex tomorrow it will only b my second time in maddd long n my first wuz sorta really small n i kno alex james n larenzo are really big n they kno im not a virgin n they kno its from anotha one of there fdreinds now i kno its gonna hurt cuz im not really opened up so how do i tell them this without it soundin like im makin fun of their frend n i dont wanna bring them to the otha side of staten island if im not gonna do it... i wanna do it but like last time i just couldnt n they got really pisssed i dont kno wat they'll do ythis time if i do that again.... help me.. again... janet [BaBiEeJaY]
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2003-06-08 12:48:29 |
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iitte its me again ` well ok jus wanted to update the 19 yr old with the g/f who makes moves on me.. well me n him r havin problems not to long ago werd got out about wat wuz goin on so me n him aint talkin... n Roman hes not my ex boyfreind hes my exboyfriends,frend... n he werks rite near my house but hes about 18 remember im only 14 but i dont think he likes me but the otha day on thursday i met the guy i've always wanted hes tall black in shape... hes intelligent deep.. romantic... aggressive to a point... hes fun to b around... he made me think about what i wuz saying... he werked ... hes 20... hes adorable... we clicked and he lives in atlanta georgia... his name was Maliek... n we 5really clicked we had so much to talk about n he wuz a great kisssa he got my cell numba n we talked for a few hours.... he doesnt like to argue with girls so he says i'll calll u bak n hangs up... then he calls bak n i relally like him n i dont wanna leave over one day i feel like i've known him forever n he actually doesnt want me just to fuck me we jus talk about skool anfd werk and life and our families and everything hes gotta leave soon n i dont want him to.. what shuld i do but b4 u tell me that hes too old for me let me tell u i find guys around my age really immature ... and looking for sex more than older guys i kno... so please hoow do i tell him how strongly i feel for him without sounding corny or too attached being that we've only known eachopther fo about 5 days i dont want him to go bak to atlanta georgia!!! help me!!!!! [BaBiEeJaY]
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2003-06-08 12:39:59 |
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iitte its me again ` well ok jus wanted to update the 19 yr old with the g/f who makes moves on me.. well me n him r havin problems not to long ago werd got out about wat wuz goin on so me n him aint talkin... n Roman hes not my ex boyfreind hes my exboyfriends,frend... n he werks rite near my house but hes about 18 remember im only 14 but i dont think he likes me but the otha day on thursday i met the guy i've always wanted hes tall black in shape... hes intelligent deep.. romantic... aggressive to a point... hes fun to b around... he made me think about what i wuz saying... he werked ... hes 20... hes adorable... we clicked and he lives in atlanta georgia... his name was Maliek... n we 5really clicked we had so much to talk about n he wuz a great kisssa he got my cell numba n we talked for a few hours.... he doesnt like to argue with girls so he says i'll calll u bak n hangs up... then he calls bak n i relally like him n i dont wanna leave over one day i feel like i've known him forever n he actually doesnt want me just to fuck me we jus talk about skool anfd werk and life and our families and everything hes gotta leave soon n i dont want him to.. what shuld i do but b4 u tell me that hes too old for me let me tell u i find guys around my age really immature ... and looking for sex more than older guys i kno... so please hoow do i tell him how strongly i feel for him without sounding corny or too attached being that we've only known eachopther fo about 5 days i dont want him to go bak to atlanta georgia!!! help me!!!!! [BaBiEeJaY]
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2003-06-08 12:39:57 |
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yes "a reader" you can...sorry i just wanted to say hi to a fellow adviser..HEY! lol [AnA in DiSguiSe]
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2003-06-08 01:29:51 |
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Can you have your period... and still be pregnat? [A Reader]
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2003-06-07 21:22:43 |
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^i 4got something...also can u tell me how to french kiss..exactly...thxy [cielo13]
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2003-06-07 20:12:19 |
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i have a b/f...and well we've only kissed on the mouth twice...*he lives long distance*...anyways..well i've never french kissed anyone before..and when i think of the thought..i get reallay nervous..and sometimes think that i dont wanna do it at all..i'm just wondering if this is weird...i'm 14...thx [cielo13]
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2003-06-07 20:10:26 |
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i have a b/f...and well we've only kissed on the mouth twice...*he lives long distance*...anyways..well i've never french kissed anyone before..and when i think of the thought..i get reallay nervous..and sometimes think that i dont wanna do it at all..i'm just wondering if this is weird...i'm 14...thx [cielo13]
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2003-06-07 20:10:13 |
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hmm responding to someone's question about if the first time hurts... HELL YES! wow... u wouldnt believe... but i've only done it once so i dunno what it feels like after.. i heard it was better. anyway, here's my question: i have a boyfriend, but i've liked this one guy for almost a year now, and he's liked me, but there's been drama. Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, and for the past month this other guy has been talkin to me. i can't help it, but ive started liking him, and i guess leading him on, because this girl came up to me and started bitching me out about it like "you better make up your mind fast". my question is how? i've tried comparing their traits and stuff, should i just stay with my boyfriend now? or should i take a break from him and decide who i like more? that seems like a good solution, but it's so bad cuz both guys like me ALOT (not trying to sound cocky or anything) HELP! please? [Anonymous]
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2003-06-05 21:29:42 |
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I would think the person is asking how do you tell if its been popped without popping it yourself! But anywho... [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-06-02 13:01:16 |
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does a girls first time hurt? and do you bleed? [CAREBEAR101]
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2003-06-01 19:57:34 |
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Hi, I just need a little advice. Ok, I'm 16, and it's been seven months since me and this guy that I really loved for both his personality and his looks broke up. Since then, I have just been using guys to try and make him jealous and been passing up good relationship opportunities because it feels like no one can ever compare to him. Him and me don't talk anymore because we got into a huge argument, and I REALLY need a lot of tips about how to get over a guy!!! I've tried everything from keeping myself busy to girl nights out to picking him apart with my girls but nothing at all works. Thanx for any suggestions and help you can give me:)!!! [YO BABY GURL]
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2003-05-31 19:33:19 |
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how to you know if ur "cherry" has been popped? i've heard tampons can do it?? cuz i think mine has somehow but i'm not sure?? [hmmm]
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2003-05-31 19:15:22 |
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hey your diary is pretty great. well I have a big worry. Im on the pill and I had my period last week. but today I got it back. what does it mean? Im not supposed to have it! [me]
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2003-05-31 13:21:53 |
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hey whut up heather? ok me and my bf started going out a lil over a week ago and weve been making out and all that and hes been up my shirt. he was trying to finger me too tonite but we were in my friends car and i woulda let him except for the fact the my friedn was driving and it was kinda weird with him in the car lol. anyways i wanna go farther with him but ive never given a hand job or anything like that b4. ive only had stuff done to me. so my question is, how would i do that? i want to, but im nervous aboiut it. if u could help that would be great. thanx. [Jade]
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2003-05-31 00:13:22 |
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Alright. I happened to come along and read your diary. Since I seen you answer other people's problems or whatever I'll give you one of mine. I'm a girl and I'm a lesbian. I've been talking to this one girl lately and like she talks about wanting to do sexual things with me and I agreed to it. She then asked me how I like pu$$y's. Personally, I liked them shaved, but it doesn't really matter to me. Should I tell her I liked them shaved or not? I don't want her going out shaving it when it's not already. I don't care, but I still liked them shaved. What should I do? Any suggestions are appreciated. Thanks a lot.... [ILOVEGIRLS]
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2003-05-26 16:01:43 |
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i get irritation and bumps and itching in my vagina when i shave it and its really annoying. what can i do to prevent it?? or make it less?? please help! [Anonymous]
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2003-05-26 15:51:37 |
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hey heather, can u help me get back my friends good side. one of my best friends is mad at me because i wont say sorry for doing sumthing to her i didnt do. and my other best friend is mad b/c of what my best friend didnt tell her, and she wants an apolgy too. How can i get my friends to like me again? Help! [help me!]
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2003-05-26 15:24:50 |
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Hey. I figure this is a good place to ask my question. lol
One of my good friends recently got a computer. So, she went into a chatroom and met some people. She knows this guy who is 23 (she is 16) and after only a couple of months, they shared pictures, talked on the phone, and are even planning on meeting this summer! She is also having family problems, thinking about leaving her home. Since the guy is planning on staying here for a while, she thinks she can depend on him for a place to live.
How do I express how dangerous that is to her? She is **EXTREMELY** hard headed and stubborn. Everything I say she turns the other cheek. =S Thanks. [PaperDollyBurned]
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2003-05-25 18:51:19 |
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I have a diary here already but I don't want people knowing it's me. Well, um... I'm going to sleep with this guy. He's not my boyfriend, but he's one of my closest friends. He asked before, but I said no, because I thought I was too young, I wanted to wait till I was married. But I also wanted to do it with someone who was also a virgin, and I don't think I'm going to find a guy who's a virgin when I get married, lol. So, I haven't planned a date to do it, but I would like to when I turn 17. I'm doing it someone who's always been my friend, and special to me. So, I guess that's ok, right? I don't want to sound like I get off with anyone. And also, like I said in my last comment, I didn't like going down on someone, but I want to make it really good for the guy I'm going to sleep with, so if I tried going down again on the first guy that I tried it on, (I've only done it once), I mean, if I like "practised" on the first guy I did it with, would it make me a sl**? Is my comment easy to understand, I've kinda made it complicated... [aimee]
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2003-05-25 13:26:26 |
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Hey it's Heather... If you need advice about anything give me a comment. I'm going to be on all day on and off. Any topics, and to give you an idea check out page 1. If you don't feel like telling me your question here then EMAIL me at my personal email address: gurlygurl4@loveable.com and I will check it everyday or every other day just like my diary. You can rely on me to answer you questions! [Advice_gURL_on_Life]
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2003-05-25 12:15:02 |
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i need to know if my boyfriend likes my friend. he always flirts with her and she doesnt reject it! like she flirts back. sometimes its right in front of me and i get so mad! so i guess my question is how can i tell my bf likes my friend more then me and should i dump him? [needs to know]
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2003-05-25 11:56:08 |
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hey heather! i am really bored. i want to know how i can tell if my friends are bisexual or not. i am but i dont want to go up to them and be like, HI whatsup guys, im bisexual how about you? i mean i dont want to scare them but i want my bff to know. and how to tell if their bi to? [bisexual gurl]
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2003-05-25 11:53:16 |
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my parents wont let me pierce my ears or wear makeup. is there anything i can do to look prettier? help me heather! [ugly girl at home]
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2003-05-25 10:55:01 |
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I got my period September 1st and I didn't get it until October is there something wrong or does it just a different day this month or does it come like next month or something? Help? [Rosanne]
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2003-05-25 00:38:57 |
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Ok, I have a problem. I have been talking to this guy online, and have been cybering with him. See the problem is, my parents don't allow me to talk to other people on-line, like in chatrooms. I really like to masturbate when were talking, but im afaird my parents might find out my secret. Please help!!! [Kinda_confused]
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2003-05-24 21:59:04 |
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Hey, I have a diary but I didn't want you replying on it. Um.. yesterday, I went down on someone for the first time. I knew what I was getting into, and I still went round his house. We started kissing then he asked me to suck... you know and I didn't want to but out of curiousity, I did. I didn't enjoy it, and I feel guilty. I'm not dating anyone, but I feel common and dirty, and used. Oh, I don't know what to think. [aimee]
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2003-05-24 14:09:19 |
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good advice on the first one. it is gunna benefit me/ [sproxygirlie]
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2003-05-24 12:51:48 |
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Thanks. :) [e5s]
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2003-05-24 09:26:31 |
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I have a problem and i hope you can help. I'm only an 8th grader, and well i had this REALLY good friend since 1st grade. we meet at camp and kept returning back year after year. But when about to go into 7th grade we go into a big fight. Which was mainly my fault. (by the way we go to different schools) back to the story. So schools almost over and next year were going to be in the same high school. Ever since me and this girl got in a fight shes been acting really like a jerk to me (which i understand after ehat i did, but shes going way over the top) Were in some of the same classes (my friend is friends with her) and now i'm all freaked out and i'm panicing that this could reuion a lot of stuff. PLEASE help, what should i do? [Loving Conan]
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2003-05-23 21:18:47 |
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my friends like talking about boys but i dont. is there something wrong with me? [not_mature_yet]
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2003-05-23 21:11:02 |
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girl you advice is awesome. i have people comin to me all the time, and it can get nuts, but i commend you. you're incredible. i have a problem that i feel i cant go to anyone with tho. so i thought it was worth a shot, online. i am 18 years old. i recently met this guy and we hit it off immediately. we talk everyday (on the phone and messenger). we both have feelings for each other, but he lives 11 hours away, and he is 7 years older than i am (not that age is really relevant). i am going back to school in the fall, and he just bought a house and works fulltime. do you think it would be smart to pursue more than a friendship right now? i dont want to lose the relationship we have. he is seriously the poster boy for what a girl wants in a guy...but he makes the most incredible friend! help?? thanks a ton. again, keep up the good work. :) ~e5s~ [e5s]
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2003-05-23 21:09:10 |
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there's this boy in my class who always teases me. y does he do this and how can i make him leave me alone? [hurting]
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2003-05-23 21:06:25 |
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my mom and dad always want to plan things with me on the weekend, but i dont have as much fun as i used to. now i'd prefer to spend more time at my bff house or just be alone to write in my diary or email my friends. i feel bad about it. What's happening? [lovable fun girl]
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2003-05-23 21:01:39 |
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Ok I have a question. At the place where I work there is one guy and I really like him. He is only like a year older than me. Here is where it gets confusing. I have been flirting so he knows that I like him he's even going to go to a concert with me I think. But his ex-girlfriend also works with us. They really don't get along that well. She is always telling me that he is mean and perverted and other stuff she will even say these thing in front of the guy. I thinks he likes me and stuff cause he always talks to me and everything. So how can I know for sure that he likes me and would it be awakward scince I'm friends with his ex if we were to go out and how can I get him to go out with mew if he does like me (it's kinda weird because my mom also works with us) [Carebear2309]
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2003-05-23 11:45:46 |
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Hey Heather, I just got out of a relationship over Spring Break. It was a long 7 month relationship,and frankly it was my first relationship ever. And it was a hard breakup, but now I'm just glad I did it. But now, since my promotion is coming up and there's a promotion dance, I asked this guy I like to go with me. It's so hard to tell if he likes me or not, I'm just, too afraid to ask, I've been really sensitive and I get offended easily ever since the break up.And I'm afraid to ask him.It's hard to tell, but he glances at me every now and then and smiles. But, when he talks you can't tell if he's serious, or if he's joking. I want to confront him, but everyone always crowds! How do I get him alone? [fireXangelXdreamZ]
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2003-05-21 19:55:12 |
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how would i ask a guy out?.................
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thanx but really i think somthing's wrong w/her, she's refussing to go to the doctor's, but she says that lately when she lets her boyfriend eat her out or finger her, she bleeds when she cums, i dunno....you think somthings wrong? i do....like really she wont even tell her boyfriend, and she says its hard to cum now too... [advice05]
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2003-05-21 19:29:47 |
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Drop some problems in the comment box..
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Hey, Well, i am in a bad situation right now , and i need some help, my friend is trying to get with the guy that i am in love with, and today she told me that she got with ,and me and him are really tight, and when i asked him earlier that day if he liked or wanted to get with my friend, he told me no. so i believed him cuz i like him, and i believe him. but then when i heard that they got together, i was really hurt, and i don't know who to be mad at, him for lying to me, or her for stabbing me in the back.but later that day, i found out that she asked him if they were together or not, and he said i don't know, so they aren't together, but i am still really mad. So please help me. who should i be mad at, or should i just forgive and forget???? Ciera [daddyslilangel87017]
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2003-05-21 19:10:14 |
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.............I been really depressed lately
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how would i ask a guy out? i mean do i just walk up to him and say wanna go out w/ me? or what i dont know how.... [Me]
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2003-05-19 19:43:22 |
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.............I been really depressed lately
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ok, i have my own advice column, but watever that has NOTHIGN to do w/the question. my actual friend asked me today to give her some more ways to masturbate, i told her all the objects around the house but she didnt like the idea, and her and her bf have drysex ALL THE TIME, but he's not gonna be around for like a month, so she wants some more ways to do it, like i told her the watermethod and everything...come on are there anymore? i thought i covered them all w/her...whatever help if ya can... [advice05]
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2003-05-19 18:28:00 |
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........my brother has alot of weed
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I been really depressed lately, my best friend, Kaitlynn, got really mad at me for basically no reason, and she has been extremly evil, I moved a few months ago and sense then she just hasn't liked me. I also think she is jelous of my cousin, Meg, cause we are really close and we are always talking/hanging out with each other, but anyways... I just have felt really sad lately, and all my friends have been noticing. I feel like running far far away from everything, or just dying. I don't know what to do! Thanks. ~SwishE234 [SwishE234]
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